For me, as mentioned in yesterday’s post, my ‘base body’ is a reflection of the food that I’m mindfully putting into my body to support my health in a manageable and enjoyable way. The fact that I’m now working two jobs, one being my blog and the other being in hospitality here in Greece, I don’t have the energy to also add working out to my schedule.
- I’m not eating meat for personal reasons;
- I don’t eat sugar or processed foods;
- I limit my wheat based product intake to help reduce my period pain;
- I’m also avoiding mainstream processed dairy but eating cheese that my day makes from his goats;
- I eat a lot of organic eggs and vegetables;
- I drink 2-3 liters of water a day;
- I limit my coffee intake because it gives me the jitters;
- And I try and avoid chemicals in my day to day life as much as possible.
But this is just me and my currently lifestyle.
My base body last year included meat, wheat and dairy and I was a little heavier but I was still ok with how I looked, although I did have the inkling I could be doing better for myself and my health in general as I was lacking energy in the afternoons and experiencing extreme bloating and painful periods. It was my goal to remedy these issues and with the help of Lisa from BePure i learn about the inflammatory effects of wheat and dairy and that this was the contributing factor to my main area of concern – my painful and erratic menstrual cycle.
I no longer set goals around my weight any more, I don’t use scales or get upset with myself because I’m not doing workouts.
Now when I do set goals they are always based on a feeling that I need to improve an area of myself for a better overall feeling of wellness.
For example, now I feel that i need to do something about my flexibility and range of movement. I have such tight hips and I’m starting to get very bad sciatic pain. I’m about as flexible as a piece of wood and I can feel that I need to do something about it, so I will be looking to improve on this in the future but I’m not beating myself up about it. I will do it when time allows and my feeling about my body in general does not depend on this one thing.
I feel good after making these few small changes to my mindset and eating habits. It feels amazing to have health and wellbeing in my mind instead of my weight and how I look. Now it’s all about how my body feels. During this process I have been able to reduce and eliminate some of my previous issues and feel better overall. I’m discovering why my body is doing what it’s doing and how to best support it in its process, and it’s really empowering.
I feel like by doing the above I’m supporting my body in the best way possible so it can function well.
I’m also not beating myself up if I slip and have a little pizza or chocolate, as I believe depriving yourself of the things you want forms an unhealthy relationship with food, but in saying that I don’t have a crazy yolo mentality either.
These are the things that I have taken some time to realize and learn about and now, for me, this process has given me what I would called my current base body.
It’s really about being in tune with yourself and learning how different things affect you or make you feel.
Self love should be a given, we should all praise and accept and love ourselves unconditionally and encourage others to do this same.


9 comments
You look fantastic Millie. Love the tats! I had no idea you had so many. Great blog too by the way. I like your approach to health 🙂
thank you so much
Millie I saw this post on tour Instagram and I was like ‘yes awesome’!! This is more about focusing on what’s sustainable for the healthiest life we can live on a day to day basis. I used to hustle for the lastest diet to loose weight, all I cared about was looks and looks don’t tell a story of how well you feel. I was mentally and physically hungry for so long & I battled with accepting myself. I wish I could tell myself I didn’t have to struggle with that for so many years. I went from googling pictures of thin women for inspiration when I was hungry at night to fuelling my body with what it needs to give myself the energy for life. I’ll never have a model thin body but now because I eat properly i can run 70km a week. I feel fit and healthy and that to me means more than starving myself for an unsustainable I’ll never be happy with.
You really have the right mindset re your body. How you care for it and why. I’m 54 now but when I was your age it was all about looking good for others and feeling I had to be slim , there was just no other way. I didn’t diet as such, I think my lifestyle just lent itself to barely eating and just wanting to look good for others… I spent another twenty or so years ‘unlearning’ that mindset and it still haunts me sometimes but I have changed to caring for my body and what I put into it. Being healthy is my main focus so I can be here a lot longer for my mokopuna. With age also comes different health issues and I am damned with a few bad ones so I eat clean as possible and exercise as I can.
You are a very wise beautiful young woman and the balance you have created in your life is to be admired! You listen to your body and that is the key as it will tell you what it needs and definitely what is harming it.
I love reading your blogs and other social media. You give other young women inspiration and older ones hope.
Stay well and keep living life to the fullest. xx
Thank you for sharing very inspiring 😊
Really, really great advice, thank you. I feel like we get bombarded with messages about being fit and needing to join a gym or one of these new group fitness things, but like you I feel tired enough with work and family stuff. And then I just feel guilty that I’m not doing what it seems like everyone else is doing….its shit really. So I am glad to hear a new tune – thanks again xx
Love this blog Millie and adore the photos saw these on facebook. Changing that mind set is so key to overall health and well-being. My personal mind set changed in regards to doing things for me that I loved, my exercise is Yoga, Pilates, walking, cycling these make me feel good and I do them with friends, family and or my dog, eating for me is food again that I love but makes me feel good inside and out. I was living in a world of I should do this or that feeling disconnected by expectations rather than focusing on my needs and connecting to my inner self. I love to run but only in the bush, I feel fake in gyms, yoga/pilates gave me inner strength and now I teach others. Thank you
Love this! this is the journey I’m trying to be on. Its about health and wellness not numbers. Thank you for the reminder
Very insparational young lady..Keep up the good work.😘